Being a phone sex operator has been an extremely fun and exciting job for me. But it’s also much more than a job too; it’s also a learning experience. I’m in an environment where I have the chance to discuss all the things that are taboo, the things you could never discuss at the dinner table, or in mixed company. I’ve learned a lot of things about men, about masturbation, and about secret fantasies.
I’ve learned from being a phone sex operator that we should not be ashamed of masturbation. Right now, somewhere in the world thousands of people are rubbing one out as you read this. I get calls 24 hours per day, even though I can’t physically do them all myself – I always know someone out there is ready to “get off”.
I’ve learned that masturbation is a desire that’s best given in to. Sometimes as humans we need to cum at the darnedest of times. Sexual passion; whether with a partner or as a simple animal urge, needs to be nurtured. Even in times of crisis, our bodies crave to be touched.
I’ve learned that masturbation is a “cure” for many ailments including exhaustion, mental clarity, boredom, and loneliness. Sometimes we just need to explode in orgasmic fantasy pleasure so we can get our minds focused back in reality. We use it as a form of escape and it releases tension.
I’ve learned that having kinky fantasies usually mean you are intelligent and have a great imagination. Often our fantasies are rich in detail while designed to titillate a long drawn out “jerk off” session. Fantasy is normal, healthy, and a lack of it can make life pretty boring.
I’ve learned that I like men even more than I thought I did when I started! I found out many interesting and intriguing things about the male psyche. I consider myself lucky to learn how to better relate to guys in my own personal life through this experience.
I’ve learned that I like to talk. I learned that I like people. I learned that it’s not easy to run a business. And mainly, I learned that I like phone sex a whole fucking shitload!
