Phone Sex Requires Brains
There is a common misconception that all Phone Sex Operators are dumb, uneducated, unemployable, and lazy fat housewives. A Phone Sex Girl is considered much like a “catfish”…. fake and just after a buck. Phone Sex is stupid, nobody calls anymore because it’s “out of date”. Some Sex Workers often look down on a Phone Sex Operator as well.
All myth, misconception, misunderstanding, and frankly…. silly in my opinion. Yes, I believe phone sex is for the intelligent. But I’ll get back to that later.
The Phone Sex Industry is a business, and it IS sex work. A Phone Sex Girl is selling her personality, her mind, and sexual “activity” ala conversation and masturbation. Phone Sex is often about intimacy as it can often be about “secret” interests, fantasies, and sexual conversation about topics that no one else may know about an individual. Masturbation is the ploy. Things are shared that a spouse or partner and certainly not your close friends know about you. Phone Sex is sex work by definition because it IS a sexual service. Though phone sex as a business is considered adult entertainment and is completely legal. A Phone Sex Operator doesn’t meet clients face to face, or genital to genital… but masturbation is still a sexual activity.
If you interviewed 100 phone sex operators I feel that you’d be shocked to know how many are educated, intelligent, and very employable. (Most Sex Workers in general too) Sure, I know of many phone sex stereotypes, but more often than not I find the women in the phone sex industry to be exceptionally intelligent and creative. It IS a talent to think fast, create a story, assess someone else’s personality, and create an aural experience like a “play”. Oh yeah, it IS a real skill to be able to communicate with many personality types. I believe very little “acting” takes place in Phone Sex because in order to be successful as a phone sex operator you have to have the ability to connect audibly as one human being to another. You kind of need to be yourself. It’s far more work to engage a man in conversation than having one look at or enjoy my body.
Admit it guys. You know this is true. No matter how HOT a woman is if there is nothing going on in her brain after a while she’s going to get very boring. Think of the hottest woman you can, and trust me somewhere out there is a dude sick of her shit… no matter how great the sex is lol. Are there dumb, uneducated, unemployable and housewives working as phone sex operators out there? Sure. Same as there are dumb, uneducated, unemployable, and fat housewives working in any job… working as CEOs. Hell lets switch that around if you will. There are dumb, uneducated, unemployable, and fat men out there in great positions of power. You encounter stupidity and lack of education everywhere you go.
Phone Sex still makes money, is still an active industry, and is still surviving just fine. Out of date? More people have phone sex now than ever before. Porn as an industry is almost mainstream now. Of course, the industry has its issues with social media and search engines and definitely battles with ridiculous laws, etc. But it’s here, doing just fine, surviving, and thriving. I make a nice living can travel, pay a mortgage, make a new car payment, and even do calls in my robe.
Phone sex is for intelligent people in my opinion. You have to have an imagination, be skilled with words, and also enjoy another person in that same way. It’s a meeting of dirty minds. Imagination can run deeper and be more intense than any photo or video.
