I get asked many questions about phone sex from my callers. Often they want to know how I made phone sex into a business, how I feel about it, and little details like that. So I created this phone sex faq article to answer some of those questions!
How long have u been doing phone sex?
I’ve been doing calls for a few years now, and yes – I do love it. I consider it an adventure and each day is new and different.
Do you like your callers?
Of course! The cool thing is that you get to talk to all different types of people all over the country and even the world. All my callers are unique and different, but they are real people and I never forget that.
Do you do anything else?
Right now I am back to taking some college courses as well as teaching a few. I don’t get specific about that stuff on my website but I do discuss my personal life a bit more on the phone.
Do you really get off at all during phone sex calls?
Sure thing! If that is what the caller is into. My goal has always been about mutual masturbation… but some callers want more fetish stuff or a roleplay where it isn’t about me as much as them. In those cases I tend not to masturbate, so I can cater to the caller. When I got into this biz initially I did it for the orgasms. But not all calls allow me the opportunity to do that.
What are your favorite fantasies?
I can’t say I have one favorite, they are always evolving. Same is true for my movie and music tastes lol. For me, fantasy is a curious thing. I love to dive deep into someone else’s mind and pick at their brain. That’s one reason I like what I do. But also it becomes a way of self discovery to learn new ideas about a fantasy. I love being in a position that I get to talk openly about sex and fantasy with real people. In some strange way it helps me to figure out my own fantasies. And it’s always a work in progress.
Are there fantasies that you don’t like?
Yeah, I guess so. I’m not really into a fantasy that is harmful to others. I don’t find pain, abuse, or criminal activity to be sexy. It’s alright for some, but not for me.
What’s your favorite color?
Pink or Purple and in all shades!
What’s your favorite outfit to wear?
It all depends on what I am doing. Around the house I dress comfortably like in a tee shirt and blue jeans. When I go out sometimes I like to be Dressed to Thrill!
Do you do domination calls?
A little yes, but not really the hardcore stuff. I’m flexible and try to work with a caller though. When I truly don’t feel I can handle a specific domination theme – I do say so rather then attempting to fake my way through it. I was just taught to have manners and be polite by my mother so to truly humiliate a person is a bit out of my personality. I find it difficult to do.
Are you submissive?
Not really no. Sometimes I like a roleplay where I am… like as the young unsuspecting babysitter type of thing… but as a rule I am just too strong of a woman to be submissive. It’s just not my thing. I guess if I was pressed to be more specific I would say I am submissive at a level 3 out of 10. Some light stuff is cool, but I don’t enjoy abuse or pain.
Does your family/friends know what you do?
Uh, not really. A few friends do, and only a few close family members do.