Phone Sex is No Joke

For as many years as I have been in the phone sex industry, I have been annoyed at any mainstream media that publishes an article about the business. I have my reasons, and they are plenty.

One of my greatest pet peeves with articles about phone sex operators is that the operator almost always says something judgmental or cruel about the callers. The operator in this article says that one of the perks of her job is that it can be really funny. That really bothers me.

I have never thought of my clients as anything other than human beings. Sure, they have boners and wish for me to keep them company while they jerk off… but I appreciate the fact that they are sharing something deeply personal and private with me. I give them the respect that they deserve. Because I never think someone’s fantasy is “funny” or that I can make a joke out of it.

Over the years, I have had some callers with whom I didn’t click with. It happens; life is full of personality clashes. I still treat them with respect. And just because a fantasy is odd or different, maybe even a little unusual… it doesn’t mean that it isn’t 100% healthy. Nobody really knows where a fantasy comes from…. not even psychologists.

Also, over the years, I have had callers who have asked me questions like What is the weirdest fetish that you have heard? I had one client in particular who used to ask me to tell him all about weird stuff that my other callers wanted to talk about. I always tell them I don’t have an answer for that. I really don’t. I can’t. I practice non-judgment.

I don’t have the desire to make anyone’s secret fantasies into a joke. Why would I? We are all unique as human beings, and so are the fantasies we have. I also believe that when a client tells me his deepest darkest fantasy or fetish, he is trusting (and paying for) me NOT to share it with anyone else.

PhoneFlirts.com always keeps your secrets and never laughs at them. Thank you! This ends my little rant.