Wow, phone sex can be rough!
I have a long-time caller who has called for a while but alas he also called another small one-girl service too. (shocking isn’t it that you horny guys call all-around lol) anyway, I guess he liked the girl fine – until he got this massive bill. His funds are – shall we say are… more “limited” and I was always cautious not to let him run over with his time because I respect him and HIS money. However, in this crazy business, you sometimes come across seriously sad women. This operator had charged hundreds of bucks to his account hoping he wouldn’t notice it! Well, he DID notice and called her back about it. The excuse? She said to him, “Well I needed the money” and she promised she would pay it back soon. Is that the scariest thing you heard all day or what? It makes you wonder how many other guys she did that to who didn’t notice it! I will let you know that the caller was not foolish enough to believe such bullshit, thank goodness for him.
I find it amusing – while I grant you that yes we do work in the adult industry – it really can be done honestly and with ethics. While hopefully, our phone sex call will be naughty and everything you want it to be – it should also be professional. Basically, it means this IS still a business and should be run as such with all the legalities, moralities, and professionalism intact.
I find women who cross the ethics line in this business to be not so “healthy-minded” and that’s a sad thing. My job is very cool – I get to meet guys I wouldn’t normally be able to meet, I get to flirt and talk about sex all damn day – and in my case, I work directly from home. Being a phone sex girl has a ton of perks for sure… but I don’t think “stealing” is one of them! Crikey! The whole internet boom has created an atmosphere where con artists and predators can set up and close up “shop” pretty fast. The multitudes of websites that exist make it pretty hard for the typical “horny surfer” to find an honest business. And by the way… there are many good honest ethical phone sex owners/operators/services – but man oh man there are still shit loads of scum buckets too. It exists in all industries on the net as well – it’s not just limited to the adult industry.
If you ever saw the movie Punch Drunk Love then you might get an idea of what I am talking about. I recently watched it on HBO or something and the main character calls a phone sex service one night. To his surprise the next day the operator calls him at home asking him for money! I had a conversation with my caller after I saw the movie about his little rip off incident. Boy, these things DO happen for real – and it’s so shocking to me. Perhaps I am naive – no, I take that back I KNOW I am naive…
It just would never occur to me to “scam” my callers – I like them too much. It wouldn’t occur to me to steal a pack of gum at the grocery store either. I was taught better than that shit, and I live my life better than that too. But then again I’ve never been here for the money alone either… I do this because I like it because I like men, and I love sex in all forms. I suppose if I were an unemployable, desperate Ricki Lake/Jerry Springer freak, or a con artist I could understand that mentality better. But alas, I can’t. I will never understand that type of greed and thank goodness too…. because I don’t want to.
My point in writing this isn’t to sound like a whiner or like I know everything – Nah I don’t. I’m not preaching my way either – that would be pretty boring. But I do think the whole internet has changed so much that it almost seems now there is more “junk” available than quality in most of the sites we all surf. I also worry about people who are new to the net and can so easily fall victim to “scams”. As a phone sex caller reading this, I hope it makes you a bit wary of not handing out your credit card details to every site you see too. You should investigate the service a bit to make sure it’s not a fly-by-night type of company. You should ask questions, you should be told the billing name, and you should know WHO you are giving your info to. You should know the charges upfront before you call, you should watch what you spend and make sure it matches your CC statements.
Phone sex is a great experience, it’s fun, fairly priced, and most services will do right by you. Most services actually do follow the law. But there is always one small group of scammers out there and buying anything online always comes with a certain level of risk. Be careful in phone sex land. The business can and does attract many types of personalities…. sadly some are not so honest.
