I’m in no damn hurry for wedding bells, that’s for sure. I just feel that it is something you REALLY need to be ready for, it’s a huge life change. So I have this girlfriend who is ready, I guess. We just had her bachelor-ette party last weekend. She is marrying a dentist and he is a really great guy, but I know she won’t tell him everything that happened at her party! We started the night at a local club that we go to often and started drinking pretty early… or at least earlier than I am used to.

It got pretty raunchy, and the bride-to-be did some pretty wild stuff. I’m not complaining - I sorta like rauchy. We had a male stripper come in to perform for us. What a gorgeous guy…. a black guy actually. His “package” was one of the biggest I have ever seen!! It is funny how you add a little booze to girls and they get totally out of hand. A few friends who came to visit from Ohio took this guy back to their hotel room. I was fairly hung over so I haven’t gotten the FULL scoop of what happened yet. I have GOT to hear this one lol.

Tonight I did a call with *T* who is a really cool guy from California. We have been talking forever and he is bi, he loved hearing the story from the bachelor-ette party. The funny thing is he used to be a male dancer actually - so he filled me in on what my friends “probably” did with the black dancer! He told me stories about horny women taking HIM back to their hotel rooms and I have to admit - I got damn turned on! I think I might have missed out on some serious fun!

Well I skipped an entry for last month. Shame on me. But hey it’s summer - a time to be lazy. I can get pretty active this time of year, would you want to sit in the house all day? Nope, me neither. Went up into the mountains a few weekends which is great and still deciding on whether or not to go to the beach. hmmm in the meantime I’m still wearing my bikini quite a bit around here. I get a new one every year… and this one I ordered from Victoria’s Secret catalog. We have a store here locally and while I do love to shop out of the house — they do not have all the merchandise available. So anyway, this year’s suit is black and the top is very much a “bra style” with a little knot look in the front. I should just post the link, so hard to explain. Anyway my neighbor appreciates it. He is a married guy older like 32 or something. He’s the big “Wall Banger” as we call him. I have caught him now while I am on my deck getting some sun… he’s peeking. Do I encourage it?? Would I?? Could I?? Yes. Oh how I’d really like to rise above it, but I can’t, I like misbehaving too much. I wish I could be some smart boring girl who goes to church every Sunday sometimes… but I guess I can’t. I actually learned this about myself as a teenager. I NEED to be gawked at by men.