I consider Phone Flirts to mean “reality” phone sex. That may be a hard thing to chew for many people, but let me explain what I mean. Since 1999 Phone Flirts have provided honest, professional, and amateur style phone sex for reasonable prices. I genuinely CARE about my business and because I do, I care about the callers as well.
I never meant to stay in the phone sex industry this long to be honest! I enjoyed phone sex, and it seemed like a simple way to make money while I was still a college student. But I also saw my competition, the market place, and the need for value in this industry. As time has gone by I have personally worked to become “the best”. Since being “the best” is just an “opinion”, or a relative term, I may not truly be that. But that attitude has made me work hard to continually improve myself,and grow my business. I’ve never lost my personal morals, I’ve never become jaded, and I still CARE about Phone Flirts.
Any company, owner, or operator that stays in this business for the long haul really does CARE. Me, and others like me, put blood sweat, tears, money, creativity, in to our work… and into the human beings we offer our services to. We know the true value of a solid business, and loyal customer following. We also know that you can FEEL that with the way we do business with you, it easily comes across to you. The main reason Phone Flirts has lasted so long in a disposable industry is because the heart and inspiration of it lies with me. The reality is that I adore my business, I absolutely adore the clients, the fun, the challenge, and each day brings something new. I could have never stayed around this long if I didn’t love it.
This is a business that focuses on the “long distance” aspect, but there are real people behind it. I am professional, I cut to the chase, but I will never forget you are real too. You’ll get “no gimmicks”, no dirty “tricks”, and literally no bullshit. I know the reality of what is out there – and I’ve seen the bait and switch tactic, the stringing along game, and the real dangers of ordering anything online.
The concept of a phone sex service is so simple it appears to be a “no brainer”, but let me assure you that is not the case here. Phone Flirts is a company with BRAINS, with heart, with a soul, with a history, and I am not afraid of “reality”. I don’t promise you the moon, but I do deliver what I promise! It is my personal goal to bring you the very best in amateur phone sex. You’ll have a good time without spending a fortune, and that reality isn’t going to change!
If being a phone sex operator requires a specific “state of mind” from the caller’s perspective, then Lynnea has got it down pat. Lynnea’s mood creates a tone for your call whether it is about erotic imagery, a passionate roleplay, or just the feeling of sensuality. Her words and emotions bring life to your fantasy.
Lynnea IS the girl next door in her neighborhood. She has a down home comfortable personality and its natural…. rather than her just putting you on. She’s a sweetheart with a little urban sensibility mixed in to her old fashioned values. She can be comfortable wearing that little black dress ….or jeans and a belly shirt. She is a party girl that’s probably never lost a game of quarters or strip poker. She can turn the party on when she needs to, and turn you on when she wants to. . As a career girl she is creative, calculating and brilliant. She’s had her little business plan all along, as well a direction for the future. She can be a sensual seductress or a naughty sex kitten depending on her mood and your preference.
Lynnea has a voice like to other; she talks seductively and chooses her words with extra care by speaking slowly and with meaningful purpose. She is soothing, melodic, and uses her voice to seduce you. Her voice may literally be the sexiest on the planet and your cock has not been effectively stroked until it has been done by Lynnea.
Phone sex with Lynnea is more than an anatomy lesson, it’s being taken hostage by a hot little minx whose sensual moods fluctuate in ways that will leave you panting for more.
I believe that the key ingredient in phone sex for any caller…. is finding the right phone sex girl. I also believe that most people see themselves differently then others do.
I may NOT be every guy’s “cup of tea” so to speak. I know that, and hope you realize that too. I am not “everything” to “everyone”… nor is anyone else. I’m just a regular girl who is compatible with some guys more than others. I don’t think I want to be “everything” to “everyone” anyway… I want to keep my individuality. You can take a look at my personal Bio, you can read more about my experiences in the phone sex industry at my Phone Sex Diary, or learn about My Many Moods too.
Since I’ve been a phone sex girl for quite some time now. I do understand that it’s essential to make a personal connection, and that the girl paints her personality portrait accurately. So for you… the caller reading this…. I present you with a vivid description of my personality, my style, and my interests.
A few things that callers have said about me….
“it’s like talking to an old friend” “you are so natural and sincere which is maybe the hottest thing ever” “Listening to you read the telephone book could get me off. Anything you say sounds naughty”. “you ALWAYS have a positive attitude”.
You can read more about the things that my callers have said by visiting my comments page
Here are a few things I know about myself…..
1. I’m very naughty and flirtatious. I was born that way. I can flirt with anyone and usually do.
2. I like to take a few min to get to know someone, but I’m not opposed to urgent quickies either.
3. I’m a direct person… I hate mind games or beating around the bush (no pun intended). Speak your mind to me, and I’d do the same in return.
4. I have a wicked sense of humor that’s even a little warped and twisted. Expect me to laugh with you and to make some witty comments. It’s just who I am.
5. I feel like phone sex should be fun, a mutually good time, and free of bullshit.
6. I am not a script reader, and I never stall your time. I try to treat each caller differently and on a personal level.
7. If you sound sexy, if you are sweet to me, then I will want to cum with you.
8. My pattern of speech is just as specific as my voice is. I have good use of language, no lisps, and I speak clearly. I speak slowly and deliberately. I like creative use of words in phone sex. I’m totally NOT a moaner, a screamer, and I don’t “yell”.
9. I’m not greedy, or just into this for the gifts and tips. I do not accept those things and find that tacky. It’s just my opinion but I’d rather to talk to you then just get “stuff” for nothing. I have a boyfriend who gets me enough “gifts”.
10. I am a LISTENER… it means that I want your opinions on a fantasy because they matter. I believe that anyone who calls a phone sex line wants a fantasy to be delivered the way THEY like it. Therefore; I seek to UNDERSTAND you and your desire. Being a good listener is a skill, not a personality trait.
My voice has been best described by a great British friend of mine…. he says it is like Whiskey and Honey. He means that it sounds soothing, it feels warm, and has a sweetness to it. I’m not using a “put on” voice, it’s just my natural tones. You can hear a few samples of it on my audio page.
If the portrait I have painted of myself sounds like I might appeal to your interests and tastes then cool… let’s talk. If not, you are welcome to try some of my girl friends for phone sex too.
I promise you I know how to be feminine. I will bring out your natural male urges, so intensely that you will feel my softness beside you. I’m down to earth and I always share myself with you. I’m business minded, intelligent, open, and our phone call together will be extremely intimate.
My middle name is naughty. I have to admit to my fetish – I love phone sex because it’s one of the most erotic things I’ve tried. I’m going to tease you, seduce you, relax you, and leave you like a new man with a huge mess in your hand. I’ll paint pictures in your mind with my words… custom made just for you.
I’m always told I am the girl next door. But there is so much more to me than that. My mind and speech are slow and gradual. Before you know it – you will be lost in my voice. My feminine hiss will run through your mind… days later, even when you try to block it out. A phone sex call with me is not some High School play, or performance. It’s an indulgence in adult delights.
Phone sex should always be a personal service. When you talk to me – I can get to know you as an individual and want you to do the same. For me, it’s the knowing you that gets me turned on. You aren’t just another call; you are a unique person that I get the chance to talk to!
Let’s try to be more meaningful than: “uh so what do you like” when we talk. Let’s probe our minds deeply. Let’s share some real experiences we’ve had in a blatantly honest environment. Our phone call will be exactly as WE MAKE IT to be. So let’s make it personal and real.
I’m what you might call a natural born “tease” and I have always been that way. I’m normal, I’m natural, and I’m very real. You’ll find me quite sincere and intelligent. Phone sex with me is more than an anatomy lesson; I’ll take your mind hostage and weave you into my web of lust.
If you have ever wondered what makes a phone sex service truly stand out from another – you might want to look into the service’s ethics. Yeah even the phone sex industry needs some ethics. I know lots of company owners and different services who use good business ethics. But there are lots out there who do not too. I wrote this list of ethics, take a peek.
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We will operate within the laws of our city, state and country.
We will not intentionally misrepresent facts or our services to customers.
We will service our callers with respect, professionalism, competence, and most importantly as an individual who deserves a very specific type of attention.
We will make all billing information clear and concise. We will also offer clear contact info to our Customer Service Department who can handle any issues that arise.
We will keep caller information and records of caller conversations/entertainment completely confidential.
We will treat our website visitors, our callers, and fellow service owners with honesty and respect.
We will not take advantage of private caller information for our service, or for profit.
We will accept only phone calls that we are qualified for, by either our experience or competence to indulge in the fantasy.
We will only assign phone sex operators to a caller that has experience, knowledge, professionalism, and expertise.
We will immediately acknowledge our ability to provide the service to our callers, and will offer to withdraw from a conversation when we cannot.
We will notify callers of additional billing done to their credit cards, and to any rate increases with a clear-cut explanation of the reasons.
We will ensure that our business databases are not directly connected to the Web.
We will honestly disclose any commissions that we will receive for websites or services we recommend to our customers.
We will not use “scam” tactics or bait and switch “tricks” to lure customers into our websites.
We will create a pleasant Website that will not annoy surfers with pop up windows, devious redirects, or with a cookie cutter theme.
We will contact law enforcement in any situation where crime is suspected.
We will not attempt to “litter” the search engines with banner or link farms, or create pages that lack content.
We will not make financial demands upon our callers beyond the charges for the service itself. There will be NO requests for tips, gifts, extra money, or favors.
We will not string our callers along simply to make more money from them.
We promote honesty among our entire staff.
We do not allow conflicts of interest to take place within our business, with our competitors, or with our customers.
We will not barter for services with our customers.
We work well with our competition as Business Professionals and do not involve callers in outstanding issues we may be involved in. We obey the law and we put considerable efforts into running our individual businesses that makes this apparent to our customers.
We will respect the Intellectual Property, Trademarks, and Copyrights of our callers, and other phone sex services. We will not use content, photos, stories, domain names, and the like without permission. We also will report violations of this Code of Ethics to all affected parties.
If and when an issue arises with another company/owner we will work hard to resolve it in a calm, competent, responsible, ethical, and professional manner like mature business people.
We will never speak on the behalf of another company, service, or owner. We have respect for our competitors and believe they can handle their own issues.
It’s easy to “hide” on the Internet and to trick consumers, which is why many unscrupulous businesses take advantage of that on a daily basis. One of the biggest fears for guys who call phone sex services is that they will be taken advantage of. Internet scams in the adult industry are on the rise. How can you tell a legitimate business from a less trustworthy one?
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The Website should have the appearance of professionalism as evidenced by correct spelling, grammar, punctuation and correct use of words. Neatness counts too, but an attractive fabulously made web page is not the sign of a legitimate business either. It is very cheap to buy the ingredients and easy to obtain the knowledge of building a site. Look for websites that have been around awhile.
Does the site have the following: A mission statement, a privacy statement, a policy statement, disclaimers, hours of operation, third party advertiser honesty, and customer satisfaction guarantees? They should all be clear, concise and straightforward.
Be wary of “claims” that cannot be verified or proven. False advertising tactics are a sure sign of trouble and this goes for all types of Internet businesses.
The first thing you should look for when you decide you want to call a phone sex operator or service is: Contact Information. Make sure there is a way to contact the owner directly. If a problem ever would arise then you need to know who to contact.
Payment prices and options should be obvious. A company/service with an approved Merchant Account from a bank is much less likely to vanish and is therefore more legitimate.
If you want to jot the number down from a web page and call at a later point, then also write down the url to the site. If a problem would ever arise then you want to know exactly where you got that number.
It’s best to find one, two, or possibly 3 services that make you happy and to stick with them. Floating around and calling every phone number out there will eventually land you into some type of trouble with unethical businesses. Why would you want to hand your credit card number out all over the place anyway?
Look for a site that advertises a lot. Look for sites that have developed linking relationship with multiple places other than their own websites. Sincere businesses do promotion in many different ways on the net. Paying for advertising is also more legitimate business behavior.
If and when a problem arises with billing; then refer to the contact information to speak to the owner. ALL legitimate businesses will work out issues with you personally.
Phone sex has such a stigma attached to it that it has created its own mythology. The media has never truly given a revealing look into the phone sex industry that wasn’t tainted by this stigma. Many books written on the topic are only a one sided view; and do not encompass the industry as a whole. While there are some bad elements in this business; there are far more reliable and honest ladies in it than one might imagine. The most common myths about the industry are discussed below. I hope they provide you with some different viewpoints.
MYTH: All I can discuss is twisted perverted sex scenarios and fantasies.
FACT: A phone sex service is not a counseling service, but it can be a wonderful thing to hear a woman’s opinion or ideas. Most services or operators will welcome just friendly talk about relationships, offer advice, sex tips, and the like.
MYTH: The operator is “laughing at the perverts who call” behind their backs.
FACT: This is not at all the case! Although occasionally there are bad elements in our business… most operators and services are genuinely concerned and interested in you. As a caller you can most likely tell the difference between a girl who is interested in you… and one who isn’t. Surely it becomes pretty clear during your conversation. And a person who behaves in this manner just simply lacks class and ethics! Most operators would never dream of placing judgments of any type onto their callers.
MYTH: All phone sex operators are big fat lazy housewives filing their fingernails while they talk to you.
FACT: Phone Sex Operators come from all walks of life; for the most part they are professional, intelligent, empathetic, interesting, and normal women who enjoy discussing fantasies openly and frankly on the phone. While operators are human, and sometimes may not feel like working like everyone else, they are not lazy or always distracted from you. Quite the opposite is true; most are good listeners and want to “communicate” with you as a person.
MYTH: All guys who call phone sex are weirdo perverts.
FACT: The men who call for phone sex are usually one of the following things: father, son, brother, uncle, husband, boyfriend, college student, doctor, lawyer, car salesmen, bank manager, insurance salesmen, store clerk, stock broker, entertainer, writer, truck driver, teacher, business owner, or even a politician. An operator/service should treat you as a PERSON… an individual…. and with simple respect.
MYTH: Phone Sex Operators will talk slowly and run up your time just to keep charging you more.
FACT: Not if you are dealing with an ethical service. Besides – this is a SERVICE themed business that caters to YOU, and YOU have control over what you spend. Don’t be afraid to speak up if you believe this is the case.
MYTH: I can’t “get off” over the telephone.
FACT: A stimulating sexually explicit conversation can and does result in 2 people “getting off” all the time. If you have an imagination then you CAN enjoy phone sex.
MYTH: Phone Sex Operators are just greedy and want money.
FACT: A good many phone sex operators actually enjoy talking, flirting, and exploring fantasies. Phone Sex IS a big money making business and often operators do make a lot money, but it is not the only reason they chose this field of work. Stereotyping phone sex operators is just as wrong as stereotyping any other group of people.
MYTH: Phone Sex is cheating on my spouse and morally wrong.
FACT: Different people have different morals, values, and religious beliefs in this crazy world. Phone sex cannot be classified in a legal sense as cheating, or as an affair. There is no emotional or physical involvement between a caller and an operator. The phone sex industry itself is a fantasy oriented Adult Entertainment Service and nothing more. PhoneFlirts.com believes it is up to each individual/couple/marriage to define what cheating is and isn’t to them. We do not believe it is our place or anyone else’s to make moral judgments about a person or their relationship.
MYTH: I will become a pervert if I call a phone sex service.
FACT: You may discuss fantasies, even some of which that may be considered against the norm… but you may never want to try them in real life. Some things are best left in the fantasy world, yet it may be entertaining to discuss them with a real live person.
MYTH: You can’t avoid getting ripped off by a phone sex service.
FACT: Not true! There are many ethical and professional phone sex businesses that exist. Many many companies DO want to keep their customers happy. Like ANY business – there can be some bad elements but they are rare; most services are not out to rip you off.
MYTH: Phone Sex Operators are nothing but a bunch of dumb low class chicks who can’t get a job doing something better.
FACT: This is a completely false statement. Most phone sex operators are intelligent businesswomen who try to run a very clean ethical business that will please their customers.
For as many years as I have been in the phone sex industry, I have been annoyed at any mainstream media that publishes an article about the business. I have my reasons, and they are plenty.
One of my greatest pet peeves with articles about phone sex operators is that the operator almost always says something judgmental or cruel about the callers. The operator in this article says that one of the perks of her job is that it can be really funny. That really bothers me.
I have never thought of my clients as anything other than human beings. Sure they have boners and wish for me to keep them company while they jerk off… but I appreciate the fact that they are sharing something deeply personal and private with me. I give the respect that they deserve. I never think someone’s fantasy is “funny” or make a joke out of it.
Over the years I have had some callers that I didn’t click with. It happens; life is full of personality clashes. I still treat them with respect. And just because a fantasy is odd or different, maybe even a little unusual… it doesn’t mean that it isn’t 100% healthy. Nobody really knows where a fantasy comes from, not even psychologists.
Also over the years I have had callers who have asked me questions like: what is the weirdest fetish that you have heard? I had one client in particular who used to ask me to tell him all about weird stuff that my other callers want to talk about. I always tell them I don’t have an answer for that. I really don’t. I can’t. I practice non-judgment.
I don’t have the desire to make anyone’s secret fantasies into a joke. Why would I? We are all unique as human beings, and so are the fantasies we have. I also believe that when a client tells me his deepest darkest fantasy or fetish, that he is trusting (and paying for) me NOT to share it with anyone else.
Phone Flirts.com always keeps your secrets, and never laughs at them. Thank you! This ends my little rant.
A general definition of Phone sex is an interactive erotic conversation between 2 adults that inspires mutual masturbation, fantasy, roleplay, heavy breathing, and hopefully a few orgasms. Phone sex is always 1/3 imagination, and if you have a vivid rich one then you may want to fantasize about what you might do with the other person on the line. Or you can also be realistic and discuss what you are actually doing to your body – masturbation. You can create an entire scene/fantasy, do a roleplay, or even explore a fetish. A fantasy could be a little like an erotic story that one or both people tell during a call. A lot imagination is mixed in as well as descriptive words. A roleplay could be our own mini movie that one of us will direct. We’ll create a scene and interact… to literally “act” out the fantasy.
Fantasy, roleplay, and even masturbation is often an escape from reality, or a way to unwind. We all masturbate and different things turn us on, but no one ever talks about it among friends or family. The internet has opened up new doors to sexuality, but phone sex has been around for a long time too. Masturbation still suffers from stereotypical taboos in society, so that can make it even more fun to talk about.
There are ways you can actually benefit from calling Phone Flirts: You can open up, try new things and let someone else take the reins of control without having it affect their real lives. Once you do hang up that phone – it’s over and done with. Hopefully you had some fun while it lasted, but there aren’t permanent ramifications for doing it. You can use your imagination and your own creativity in a sexual way which may be even considered “uplifting”. Acting out in a roleplay or a fantasy may not be something you intend to do in your real life that’s ok, and really what phone sex is intended for. Having phone sex isn’t an emotional commitment or intimacy with anyone; it’s safe to say that you don’t have to be cautious with your desires. A phone sex operator is normally open minded and can deal with nearly any type of fantasy so you can just say openly what you crave, which can be freeing.
Phone sex is not a replacement for a regular sexual relationship in its physical form, instead it’s a supplement, a tease, a little foreplay, a fantasy, or just a jerk off session. That’s exactly the beauty of it!
The Diddle Delight – The perfect order… a mutual masturbation call where you and me can both relax, get naked, and lie back touching all of our intimate naughty bits. Let’s both get covered in some stick goo. Suggested Serving: Try a 20 minute call
Mutual masturbation is the phonesex du jour. With a cup of hot spunk – this guy is looking for quality versus quantity when it comes to picking a phone sex girl. It’s not about how many times HE (or she) gets off….. but instead, about how intense the build-up can be – to cum together. He’s naked and stroking – and she’s busy inside of her panties. He whispers naughty details and she responds with her own naughty ideas and suggestions. An intimate session between two strangers on the phone… taking turns at licking the spoon clean.
The Bashful Delight – You are shy and quiet and really want a girl to take you by the proverbial hand to show you the way to phone sex ecstasy. You’d rather sit or lie back with your cock in your hand pumping away while I paint a scene in your dirty mind with my words. Suggested Serving: Do a 15 minute call.
A very naughty choice for the guy who’s not a regular phone sex diner. Basically you are rather timid in certain sexual situations – and you prefer not to be the one taking charge of the conversation. This private session will allow you to relax comfortably and stroke in your own little corner, while Lynnea’s dirty mind stirs up a mouthwatering fantasy. Her sexy voice will whisper and coo in your ear until the temperature gets too hot, and has you bubbling all over your firm grasping hand.
The Muck Delight – You like phone sex to have a fast pace to it. You like it nasty.. your sex and your talk. It’s not just the sex actions that you like… you want it extremely dirty, and you want some filthy offense words used while describing it all. Suggested Serving: Buy 10 minutes
It’s “Phone-Sex-To-Go” for this fast and the furious horny guy! This is the guy you see who runs in – and then back out with his order (aka his cock) in his hand. He’s beyond the delicacies of heavy panting and heavy breathing – and just wants a little “oomph” to wet his hard whistle. This order is quick and to the point. There is NO beating of the bush here – just pure beating off. This session is served extremely fast, with plenty of filthy words and dirty descriptions.
The Indecent Delight – You are a sensual man with a desire to go slow when it comes to phone sex. You want all of your senses teased, and you want to tease back. We can get sexy, erotic, flirtatious, and drag things out at a pleasantly seductive pace. Suggested Serving: 30 Minutes
The perfect dish for a romantic phone sex encounter… where sensual minds meet mutual masturbation! He understands that foreplay begins in the brain. This naughty delight is served with plenty of sexy words, soft moans, and a hot orgasm for TWO! This is a delicious way for us BOTH to get undressed, and get comfortable with each other. An ideal choice for the guy who’s hungry for high grade passion and quality seduction – for himself AND his phone playmate. Be careful because this phone sex session can get VERY hot to those sensitive body parts!
The Wanton Delight – You want a little bit of everything because you like it all and you feel like being a greedy little piggy. You don’t need a theme to your fantasy, you just want to experience everything all at once… maybe even including the kitchen sink. Suggested Serving: Try a 10 minute call
This little phone sex appetizer is for the guy who can’t figure out exactly what he’s hungry for. All he knows is that he’s got a craving for something sexually tempting but can’t quite decide what it is. This spicy selection is a mixture of whatever “floats YOUR boat” to get you off. MaybeI’ll tell you a dirty story – or maybe I’ll talk about the hot fuck I had last night. I basically can throw out any sex-related topic – and whatever else that I think you can handle. If you’ve got a topic in mind – do tell – as I’ll be glad to add that to your over-loaded plate!
The Pervert Delight – You have a particular kink, a special little fetish, or maybe you are just a dang pervert. You’ll try everything once, and then twice to be sure you liked it…. and yeah, you usually like it! Suggested Serving: 15 minutes of phone sex
This perverse treat is for the guy who wants more than “just the usual”. There’s sex, and then there’s SEX. You know… the sloppy kind, with whip cream, chocolate syrup, fruit for probing, and yes – whatever else comes in handy. This big ole bowl of kink can be sprinkled with nasty perversions and obscene fetishes on the side. Served morning, afternoon, or night…. depending on your twisted mood!
The Discovery Delight – Have an interesting fetish or something out of the ordinary? I sure don’t know everything… but you can spend a little time teaching mw about your interests and then we’ll concoct a dirty little fantasy together. Suggested Serving: 30 minutes
“Phone Sex ala mode” is something unique that I offer as a side-dish. The best ingredients for this half-baked session is a pair of listening ears and an open mind. Here, you get a chance to bring something a little different (or wacky) to the table – such as a particular fetish, a dirty little secret, or a deep-rooted obsession. You have a burning interest that’s burning a hole in your pants – and it needs “special” attention – so you want to talk to someone who is just as naughty as you are.